Sel’s lesson didn’t end there. “You want someone to add to your life, not to complete you, if that makes sense,” she continued. “I’m lucky because he’s more of a best friend than anything else.”
D’aww! As sweet as Gomez’s message is, it’s also seriously wise. A healthy relationship is about sharing your life with another person — not making THEM your life or changing yourself in the process. It’s easier said than done, but it looks like Selena knows exactly what she’s doing.